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Showing posts with label Teens. Show all posts
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Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Make Your Own Money - A Practical Guide for Teens

Being a teenager is a trying job in itself and, when it comes to asking for a little more money for your next outing with friends, life becomes really miserable. "You'll know when you'll have to earn" is a dialogue that almost all parents give, and - believe it or not - it holds some truth too. However, that shouldn't daunt you from trying your hand at earning some extra bucks.

Be it for the nice watch you're longing for or having a dignified existence, having your own money to spend is always good.

Here are some easy and practical things for you to try, so you can earn money and not be worried about the coming weekend. It can also be a practical experience for you in handling money which will save you thousands in future. So roll up your sleeves and prepare to start working.

Tuitions: Tuitions are an all-time hit with students and, if you are good at studies, then it is the best way to make some money. You can teach small kids (which requires less academics and more energy) or higher classes (including your classmates, if you're that good) depending on your talent and brains. Tuitions, apart from giving a financial advantage, help you keep in touch with your studies as well and studying becomes far easier than before.

Babysitting: One of the most popular jobs for teenagers is babysitting, which means taking care of someone else's baby when they are out, usually to afternoon meetings or late-night parties. There are some factors you should keep in mind while babysitting though, including: how big the baby is, how well you are at handling kids, how comfortable you are with kids when they go to the loo and, of course, if you know how to keep kids busy for a long time. You can take a friend along if you think you'll get bored and ask the kids parent/s to drop you home when your job is over.

A word of warning: babysit kids of people whom you know very well and always inform your parents before going and give them the phone number of the place as well.

Pet sitting: Blessed are those who can handle a child and for those of us who can't. Well, we have other options. How about trying your hand at pet sitting? Because not everyone wants tail wagging and face licking on their holidays, you can take their pets to your place and let them enjoy their holidays in peace. Pet sitting may include a full-time care (when you keep the pet at your home) or doing small things like giving them a bath, taking them out on a walk, etc. If you love animals, then this can be a rewarding experience both emotionally and financially.

Freelancing:As exciting as it sounds, freelancing can be a bit daunting while starting out, but if you look at it, it can be a great opportunity for the talented ones among you. If you can write well, take good photographs or make cards pretty neatly, the freelance market invites you with open arms. And these are just three things in the long list of things you can do. You can check out your city's local newspapers to start with, then go onto small magazines and, if everything goes well, to bigger ones. The freelance market is an exciting one and, if you are talented enough, rewards well. There is of course an initial struggle, but the sooner you do it, the better it is for your growth.

Party planning/playing host: Now, here is a job that requires backbreaking work and offers a fabulous result if you do it well. If you get all excited hearing the foot-tapping music, playing host to people at your home or simply love the fact of working with details to make your work stand out, the good news is that you can earn some money doing just that. As you know already, start small, hosting birthday parties in the neighborhood or your relatives place where a little blooper won't hurt anyone. Be ready to become a fireball, a multi-tasker, a planner, a motivator and - sometimes - a driver (yes, you read it right). Let people come and enjoy your work of art and, when all is said and done, party hard!

Fun classes: Okay, let's face it: we are not all good at studies or teaching, but that doesn't mean we can't invent some fabulous new ideas to earn some money. A very nice option comes with arranging fun classes for kids. These classes are not academic but involve many things including dancing, singing, painting, craft, poetry and anything that can be constructive and engage the kids. You can arrange these classes for longer periods during weekends because there is nothing parents want more than having some free time for themselves on Sundays. Use it to your advantage and have some jolly good time with the kids.

Catering service/cooking: This one is for the chef residing in you. If you like cooking, baking, creating new tastes through the magic of your sense of taste or making some utterly irresistible drinks (non-alcoholic of course), then you can use your talent to earn money as well. You can start offering your services to people in the neighborhood who need a helping hand, or community meetings where they need snacks and drinks. As always, start small and take help if necessary. If you are good, you can always expand your business.

These are some of the many great ideas out there which will make you able to have some money of your own in your pocket. Be creative, be bold and be ready to experiment with your talents. The most important thing is to be practical. These ideas will help you make it through the month though, not make you a millionaire. Don't neglect studies, but fit these little jobs into your free time. Have fun and enjoy those hard-earned coins!

Praveen is an entrepreneur who runs his SEO company and loves writing when not working.


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Thursday, January 5, 2012

Solutions for Troubled Teens: Different Methods for Treating Behavioral Conditions

Teens undergo different changes that affect how they act and think. Juvenile delinquency is one of the common problems that society experiences due to teenage behavioral issues. Some of these may include massive drug, alcohol, and nicotine addiction. To treat teenagers who suffer from such dependencies, treatment centers and boarding schools for troubled teens have been established. These treatment centers have different programs that aim to alleviate behavioral issues such as rebellion, depression, and substance abuse.

Treatment centers use different methods to help troubled teens recover quickly, though the most common are via residential and clinical services. Counselors choose which method is appropriate to treat the behavioral condition of the patient. The methods include different programs that allow interaction, individual growth, and recovery from the condition. For instance, counseling and group discussion allow patients to get to know one another, their problems, and their experiences during their stay in the treatment center or boarding school.

One technique that may be used to treat teen difficulties and frustrations is the boundary structure. A product of extensive research and cognitive behavioral tests, the boundary structure examines a patient's ability to adapt to guidelines within a certain environment. This is done through interaction between the staff and patient. There are also times when family members are present during the discussions. The boundary structure helps troubled teens recognize their own boundaries, and respect those created by others. Through the boundary structure, positive values, attitudes, and behaviors are instilled.

Another method that schools for troubled youth may use to treat troubled teens is the residential framework. The residential framework differs from the boundary structure in approach and solutions. The residential framework method allows troubled teens to develop their own views by adhering to discipline and the responsibility of self-directed change. The patients' ability to adapt and take action in certain situations are enhanced in this method of recovery.

A boarding school for troubled youth must always look out for the welfare of their patients. Clinical services are available to meet this requirement. Some boarding schools and treatment centers for troubled teens have activities that encourage higher productivity, and instill morals and values. This education helps teens become more productive members of society. Clinical services also treat withdrawal syndromes and substance dependency.

For the quicker recovery of patients, residential treatment centers have a team of efficient and qualified staff. The staff can interact with the patients anytime, and are involved in the behavioral workshops and therapy sessions. Physicians and therapists are also available to monitor the improvement of their patients and provide counseling for anxiety, depression and rebellion.

If you have questions, please visit us at http://www.loganriver.com/ for complete details and answers.


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Wednesday, January 4, 2012

What Issues Are Teens Facing? Trying Alcohol

As we know children are very curious and love to try things but their curiosity can get them in a lot of trouble. It is a fact that a person can try alcohol for the first time and become hooked on it and Children are no exception. They do not always know the consequence of their behavior so they may think that there is no harm in taking a sip of alcohol therefore, they would try it. They can easily acquire a taste for it and the sad part is usually they were first introduced to it from their parents' cabinets.

It takes a strong will teen to say no to alcohol especially when his peers are doing it but most of the time he will give in because he would not want to be different from the others. Normally he will not see that the group of people that he is with is not the right kind of people to be around. To him they maybe the in-group and is having a lot of fun and he would want to be involved so he would do what they are doing.

Teens may try alcohol for various reason and some are trouble in the home, maybe their parents are not getting along with each other, there maybe financial problems in the home that they cannot get what they want or need. There maybe physical, emotional or sexual abusive in the home or some place else but all of these circumstances that can cause a child to turn to drinking.

There are signs that parents can look for if they suspect that their teen is drinking. If alcohol is in the home, check the level of alcohol in the bottle. If it is below what you have drank, then there is a chance that the teen is drinking. If you are missing money out of your purse or wallet, the teen maybe taking from you to buy alcohol. You might say that he or she is not old enough to buy alcohol. Well children are very resourceful; they will pay others to buy it for them.

Notice if there is a change in his appearance. If a teen has been neat in his appearance but suddenly he is not as neat and clean then he could be using alcohol. If his grades in school are failing grades, it could mean that he is using alcohol and is unable to comprehend the lesson. If he begin fighting in school or at home there maybe a problem with alcohol.

A child will not voluntarily tell you that he is drinking because he is aware that he is underage and he knows that drinking is wrong. Parents need to be the ones who imitate the conversation, expect a denial because the child will become fearful and would mostly lie to get out of trouble but if you suspect or have evidence that he is using alcohol do not let it slide. Try not to show anger because the child will become fearful when you start talking and your tone of voice can only make it worst.

If he denies using alcohol then simply talk to him about the danger of drinking. Do not accuse him because what you say to him will convict him, so there will be no need for accusation.

If he admits to using alcohol find out why he has turned to drinking, correct the problem if you can and use outside counsel if it is needed. Your purpose at this point is to help your child through this difficult time so use every means that is available to you.

I am a Christian, wife, mother and grandmother. I enjoy helping and encouraging others. I am South Delta School District PTO President, Parent Supporter Task Force President and a member of the Parent Leadership Institute. My main hobbies are reading and writing books or articles.

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Sunday, January 1, 2012

A Heart for Teens

Adolescence is a time of exploration and experimentation. Depending upon a child's earlier training and development determines the depth of their experience during this critical time of growth.

As a child, I was taught to be polite and pretend everything was alright, even through turbulent times. For years, I wore the mask of a smile when deep inside I hurt. By the time I became a teenager, I was filled with mixed emotions.

You see, learning to smile and pretend that all was well during adversity caused me to miss out on valuable life skills. Instead of learning to communicate my thoughts and feelings during difficult times, I pretended that problems did not exist. As a result, I never learned how to identify feelings and became confused about my emotions. By the time I reached adolescence, the emotions inside overwhelmed me.

My parents were college graduates, and worked hard in their professions. Both valued family and education. Provided with a beautiful home, the neighborhood make-up included ethnic cultures different from my own and predominantly white.

While initially culture shocked when I entered into junior high school, I eventually became compelled to connect with classmates that looked like me. Inspired to reach out to make new friends, I was rejected.

Shortly after the incident of rejection I received unexpected news. An announcement of my parents' divorce devastated me. Even though the arguments increased after the loss of my father's job, I never dreamed that my parents would divorce. Then, a whirl wind entered my life.

Ill-equipped to cope with all of the emotions stirred up inside I chose to explore and experiment with drugs and alcohol. This new coping mechanism helped me to deal with my life.

Additional adversity came into my life and caused emotions to grow. A heartbreak stimulated by the separation from an intimate relationship filled me with pain. The betrayal of very close friends confused me.

In 1981, I lost my father to heart disease. In 1982, I lost a close friend to murder. In 1983, I lost my mother to cancer. Overwhelmed by the pain I felt inside, my drug and alcohol use escalated.

As a result of my exploration & experimentation during my adolescence, I adapted to a different lifestyle. This lifestyle led me to a place that I never knew existed on earth --- Hell. Towards the end of my active addiction, I used drugs and alcohol to live and lived to used drugs and alcohol.

Finally, this way of life no longer worked. No matter how much I used, the pain did not subside. I reached out for help and found recovery. Led to recovery, I started to make discoveries about my life.

A major discovery awakened me to the importance of communication. I found that communication is an essential tool for confronting and walking through adversity. I have learned to express my thoughts and feelings with any situation in life and gain access to freedom. As a result of this awakening, I am passionate about carrying this message to teens with the hope that they make powerful choices during the time of exploration and experimentation.

After 22 years of living clean & sober, my heart is fueled with passion to contribute new ways of thinking that empower teens to discover their own passion for life.


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